I always wonder at what point in our society did women start seeking validation of men to be? Was this always the case since millions of years ago? Was the society formed around women trying to appease men or is this something humanity picked along the way and we are just now starting to realize how messed up it is?
I think somewhere around the middle ages after the rise of romanticism over practical and political marriages that's probably when this whole validation thing began. Because rather than seeing relationships as political and economic alliances they became about love and romance- The School of Life on YouTube has a really great video on this actually you should check it out.
You forgot pretty face and soft voice...the list somehow got longer the more boxes you checked. It was and still is an unachievable standard.
Because somehow, as a curvy girl with caramel skin and 4c hair that respected the forces of relaxer, I still had to be the cool girl who downplayed how smart she was because men don't like intimidating women 😂
I always wonder at what point in our society did women start seeking validation of men to be? Was this always the case since millions of years ago? Was the society formed around women trying to appease men or is this something humanity picked along the way and we are just now starting to realize how messed up it is?
I think somewhere around the middle ages after the rise of romanticism over practical and political marriages that's probably when this whole validation thing began. Because rather than seeing relationships as political and economic alliances they became about love and romance- The School of Life on YouTube has a really great video on this actually you should check it out.
The pick me era we all wish we could forget 🫠
You forgot pretty face and soft voice...the list somehow got longer the more boxes you checked. It was and still is an unachievable standard.
Because somehow, as a curvy girl with caramel skin and 4c hair that respected the forces of relaxer, I still had to be the cool girl who downplayed how smart she was because men don't like intimidating women 😂
Thanks for sharing and naming such dark times.
Wueh so kumbe you were also suffering like us?🤣